would it be okay or is there a big age gap

If he really cared about you, he would be looking out for your best interest, and that is choosing NOT to have sex because you are SO young. Just because you “love” someone, doesnt mean you have sex with them. Love does NOT equal sex. This boy is TOO old for you, and its clear what his intentions are. He wants someone young. Someone who will give him easy sex without question. He doesnt like you in the right way. Hes going to USE you for sex then find another young, naive girl and do the exact same thing to her. Dont be a fool into thinking that if a boy wants to have sex with you he must really like you…because that isnt true!! Keep your virginity, because the love you feel now at 13 is not going to be the same love you will feel in 7 years. Dont lose your virginity so carelessly, and to someone who doesnt even care about you! Wait until you are in a loving, COMMITED relationship for a long period of time

Hey Zoey, let us know what’s happened with this guy. You still holding him back?

You’re still not ready. It’s not my decision to tell you what’s best for you since I don’t know you, but do what you want.

I just don’t think you should at 13, that is WAY too young.

No it isn’t okay. You should at least wait until your older. Like 18, I did and I survived. You can hold in your urges until then.

It’s not forcing, it’s called manipulation.

You can trust me when I say that 13 year olds, as a species, are easy to manipulate. My brother and I had the same age gap and I’d play head games with him for the hell of it. I don’t think he’s ever forgiven me.

My “first time” resulted in a child, who’s now five years old. I’ve yet to get to the point in my life at which I’d planned to have children. I was both lucky and unlucky in that I didn’t know he existed for about five years. His mother, who had to put her entire life on hold to care for him, wasn’t so lucky.

Only 1 in 7 teen girls who have had a baby will actually finish school. All 7 out of those 7 insist that they’ll be that one, but life happens.

Even more disturbing, is sexually transmitted diseases. No condom will protect you, completely. They say sexually active teen girls should be tested for Chlamydia every 6 months.

One fifth of people over 12 are effected with herpees.

47% of sexually active teens have HPV, or gential warts. You wouldn’t know it, because if you have them, they’re on your cervix, which is an internal part, which you cannot see. It’s the number one cause of cervical cancer. You can get them from any genital contact with another person. Essentially, if any part of you touches any part of him, be it mouth, hand or vagina, you can get HPV.

You can have and transmit that virus without ever actually having warts.

It isn’t a good thing to get involved in.

This has nothing to do with some magical, arbitrary age at which you should or should not have sex. We all develop mentally and physically at different rates, so sex at different ages is normal and natural.

What is wrong is that sex out side of a life long, committed relationship is grossly selfish and there fore immoral. Pregnancy can never be prevented 100%, so any time you engage in sex out side that committed relationship, you risk bringing some one in to this world with out a family structure - grossly selfish.

And no, you wouldn’t be OK with being born in to that situation, so risking forcing some one else to be born that way only screams your immaturity to the entire known universe.

Get a promise or keep your legs crossed. If he loves you, he’ll wait.

I’m a guy, and when I was 15 I had sex with a 13 year old (young) girl, and we ended up being together for many years, so it’s not too dangerous. But be safe please.

HF

hmm..I love this guy though to pieces

I want him!

hes not forcing me to have sex with him dont worry

yeah your probably right,