worst problem ever

I geuss ill start at the begining. I dated aaron for 7 months. well he moves a lot, so he barley gets to call me but like maybe once a month, which I was totally ok with. well the last time we had talked we had a small argument and he said it was ok but after that I didnt hear from him for 3 whole months. well about 3 weeks ago another guy (Tony) asked me out, and I really really liked him, so I said yes. but the only reason I agreed was because I thought that aaron had got mad and broke up with me and I just didnt know because he had told me before that if we broke up we could no longer have any contact with each other. well last week aaron went to his grandma’s house for xmas and he called me. well he talked to my little brother and asked him jokingly who my new boyfriend was and my brother didnt know any better and said tony. so me and aaron talked about it and he said he understood my situation and he wasnt completly upset because it was kinda his fault. well he wants me to break up with tony..but I love tony….but I love aaron too. he keeps askin who I love more but I just cant answer it. he said if I didnt break up with tony by tomorow that he was going to do 1 of 2 things…either break up with me so I didnt have to or call tony and tell him everything. and that CANT happen please help me I dont know what to do!!!!!!! ThAnKs

Answer #1

If that is how your relationship with Aaron was, there is no way you can do that to yourself girl! Months, weeks, of not talking! Tell Tony it all, stay with Tony, you did not know what Aaron was thinking, I mean three months of not talking, of course you are going to move on!

Answer #2

if u really like tony go a head and be wit him. aaron probably have a gf anyways thats why he is not callin u on a normal basic. He want u to only want him while he’s talkin to who ever he wants. He’s playing u. If aaron really love u, then he’ll want the best for u (want u happy) right now. And he know talking once a month is not good for no one at least yall could do is email each other some kind of communication . Long distance relationship don’t work without talkin to each other atleast 4-5 times out the week.

Answer #3

You have to stop being immature let people make decisions for you, this is your life so take control over it. 1st decide what you wanna do and who you truly want to be with, i that means ending it with them both and taking some time alone to work it out then do it, but you cant keep leading them both on! and you cant be with someone when you have feelings for someone else, so work it out and then tell them both the truth on how you feel.

Answer #4

see aaron is right you have to pick. i think you dont love either of them becuase if you really did love aaron that you would have not even think to love another guy. you might think another guy is hot but you wouldnt love them too. i think you should have called aaron yourself. If you did that you have too pick. If aaron calls tony, it wouldnt be the end of the world becuase tony might not love you and if he did than he should be okay with.

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