Work worries

This is what you can do you can talk to her or talk to the boss and explain to him whats going on.

Your boss likes her - big mistake to mess with her.

Instead of getting upset when she offers you her ‘advice’, why don’t you try and make peace with her…if she said you make your coffee too strong, ask her to show you how she does it…sometimes if you give people a little credit, they’re more likely to appreciate you in the end.

Don’t be a btch her, if she is already on your case you will only increase that even more. She will have reason to while now you occasionally help her out as well. She says the boss likes her coffee better but is that really true? Did you hear it coming from his mouth? People tend to fabricate a lot of ‘facts’ to make their statements stick. I’m not calling her a liar, but opinions are very subjective.

Roles within a company are important to stick to and if she is doing more of what she shouldn’t do and less of what she should be doing she is the one not functioning within her role.

Well in a case like this, she is being proactive and so the best approach (in my opinion) would be to beat her at her own game. Sometimes to put someone into place, you have to rise above them and put in an extra effort. It sounds to me like she is trying to steer approval away from you and towards her.

There are two things I would consider in this situation… I would either talk to the boss and make sure that roles are assigned and that she does not impede on your work, or I would beat her at her own game. She should have more respect and so why not give her the ultimate reason and beat her to the coffee machine, etc. You don’t have to be a b*tch to her. Just step over her and be perfectly polite in doing so ;).