Will someone please help me!

I love him with all of my heart. I really do. and that’s what has been driving me crazy. I want to be able to have the child myself, if you know what I mean. I don’t want to leave him, but adoption in a couple of years if I cannot be able to conceive will be the best option. The whole surrogate mothers would prob make me really jealous lol and sperm donors freaks me out. lol but I would for sure consider adoption!

Thank you for your advice, hopefully he can.

What exactly about a sperm donor freaks you out? If you really love your boyfriend and want to be with him, does it really matter whose sperm is used to get you the baby you really want?

You could always try in-vitro fertilization or artificial inseminization…that way you have the option of using his sperm still.

Sperm donors freak me out because it is somebody else sperm going into me. I know it is weird but I just would not be able to do that. I am going to be with him, but it just sucks because he didn’t tell me until about a year ago. and that’s why I stopped using birth control. And we were also at the point where we wanted and were financially stable enough to have a baby. and thank you Kamayl that is the perfect answer to my problem.