Will my first time hurt?

My boyfriend is pretty big and I’m apparently really tight. When my boyfriend fingered me, he could only get one finger up and it hurt a bit and I bled a little bit too. I’m 15 and I’m mentally ready to make love to him.

Answer #1

Sweetie>you are NOT 100% mentally ready, or you wouldnt be here! Someone knows they are ready for sex when both people feel ready and confident. You’ll be confident you’ve got a good understanding of what sex is all about and how it’ll change your relationship. You’ll also know about contraception and safe sex. You’ll have a realistic attitude and you won’t be expecting it to be like in the movies.

You know that young love rarely lasts dont you? How will you feel giving your virginity to him, then later down the road he dumps you? Are you mature enough to handle that? Right now it feels like love, but the truth is, its those darn hormones talking. Trust me, love for you right now will feel alot more different in 3 yrs. Sex can make two people feel closer, but it can also hurt people, or cause two people to feel farther apart. Especially for young teens. Because girls get very emotionally attached to a boy they have sex with, where boys see sex as totally physical and don’t get their emotions involved. Just remember, love, and sex are NOT the same thing.

Almost every girl 15, and younger, have regretted losing their virginity so soon, so its your call!

Answer #2

yh it will hurt loads but to try and make it less painful you can: make sure he puts lots of lubs on and make sure your really wet because then it willfeel much beeta and it will be easier to get in yhoo ya get me gd luk x

Answer #3

Being mentally ready is not the issue.

s3x is a responsibility requiring a level of maturity and responsibility from both individuals.

At 15, you are still a child with alot of growing up to do, both emotionally, physically and responsibility-wise.

Don’t be in such a hurry to do what everyone else SAYS they are doing.

Answer #4

cmw4562 gave you the advice, Honestly, S3x isn’t a need-to thing to do. Lots of people say they did it and haven’t did it. Rushing into these things would lead to a lot more problems. Sometimes s3x ruins a relationship if you do it too much. Believe me, had it happen. ANYWAYS, take cmw’s advice please.

Answer #5

first off you need to make sure your are 100% ready to do this. It is a big deal. I personally made and mistake at 15 and wish i had waited. you need to make sure you are completely ready. also yes it will hurt. it hurts for almost every girl and there will more than likely be blood but that is just part of the deal you need to make sure everything is lubricated before anything happens. my only suggestion is make sure you are ready and be prepared. (ie. condom and if needed anyother form of birth control)but please be careful.

Answer #6

before you decide to have sex you really need to think are you doing the right thing ? or do you just want to impress all your friend at school ? i would give it time to come and when its time it will happen you dont wanna be pushed into it .. it isnt the best way of having sex trust me i no and i lost my at 15 and im 16 now i wish i hadnt done it but ya make a lot of mistakes and i dont want you to be one to make the one i did . take care xx

Answer #7

Go for it - but yest it will hurt. Keep trying and it gets much much better.

Answer #8

uhm yeah. itll hurt. a lot

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