Will it hurt her??

Hey I’m 16 and I just got a new Girl friend she is 14 is that too young? Anyway she is a virgen and she keeps trying to get me to have sex but… I don’t want to pop her cherry =[ ( all my other girl friends were not virgens) ya im a wuss but I really don’t want to hurt her. So I was just wondering if anyone could tell me how bad does it hurt and how much it really bleeds. How long must I wait after popping her cherry before sex again?

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Answer #1

Wait til she’s sixteen. It’s illegal and do you want her to get pregnant?

Answer #2

Not everybody bleed’s and sometimes it doesnt even hurt, everyone is different

Answer #3

Hey thanks a lot everyone

Answer #4

well of course I don’t want her pregnant I would use protection…

Answer #5

Coming from experience… it doesn’t really hurt that bad. The blood is a little bit of a shock, though. If she’s asking for it, then tell her you want to talk it out 100% before giving in. Tell her your best interest is at heart and that you don’t want ot cause her any pain. You’re not a wuss… you’re a loving, supportive guy… don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Answer #6

Not every woman even has a cherry (hymen). Most women are not born with one - or they have already torn it playing sports, using tampons, or doing other activities.

Just be slow and gentle with her - and make sure she is wet enough before you try and enter her. Remember that it’s her first time so listen to her and if it hurts - stop.

Answer #7

heyy erm… well you both can just warm up a little like maybe if you finger her or something or ask her 2 finger a lil bit so she can loosen up and when you actually have sex just go nice and slow and she will loosen up dw

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