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Will he think its weird when I bleed?

Well I am 14 and me and mi boyfriend have been going out 4 about 2 years and we want to take it to the next leval and were ready ! | but I just dont know wht he will think when I start bleedin on his… help! guys gurls wht you think|

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Answer #1

I cant really go against it because when I was your age that’s when I started being sexual. Before you do anything you absolutely need to get on birth control and have condoms ready because you never know what one thing may lead to. Second thing, you need to make sure you have communication. Communication is key in a relationship and you need this skill before getting sexually involved with each other. Reason being, you need to know he will stop if you ask him to and you can tell him whether you do or don’t like something he is doing. Once you have all that then you need to start taking a little tiny step at a time - just because you do one thing doesn’t mean you have to do everything, so set boundaries.

About bleeding - its not the way it sounds sometimes. I personally didn’t have any blood, but people who do only have a little tiny bit. Most people don’t even notice until they whip after doing whatever they were doing when they go to the washroom, and this may or may not happen the first few times. He should know that there is a chance of a tiny bit of blood, its completely natural. You both need to educate yourselves about all of this and talk about protection, boundaries, etc.

Answer #2

hiya darling most guys at the age of 14 no about popping a cherry or your hymen breaking I no all the guys I no do enyway so im shore he nos what it is and wont be freaked when and if it happends! because remmember it could have already broked during sports or useing tampons and fingering ect.. so you may not even need to worry about it!!!

GOOD LUCK! XD

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