Weird friend situation

good friends understand. tell the about this job your thinking about and tell them that you still want to be friends with them. they may be upset at first but theyll get over it . when you have time off you can visit them and show them that you still what to be friends hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

not bad, but these are the only people I know I can trust besides family, you can’t buy that kind of trust, it comes with years of loyalty

yeah Kattie is right they will understand and this is a good opertunity for you so don’t blow it !!!

Well hey…can’t you stiill see then?? I mean almost 21! your an adult! So you will have to start making tough decicions by urself! So do what your heart tells you to! Like if you want the job then hey go for it! I mean you can still help out your frends and see then on days when your off, on vacation, or just want a break! If you don’t take the job then you will be wit your friends like all the time! so instead of having a responsabillty then you can go and hang wit em!! or or you can stay where you are and find a new job near where you live!!

well you have to find a balence between your responsibility and your friendships everyone has to ‘mature’ but not nesessarily abandon their inner kid that just makes you a bitter person it seems like your just afraid that something you might do with your friends might negativly affect your job you can hang out with them, but make right choices, which is the hardest part but figure out a balence, and if thats not possible figure out what you want more, friendships (negative and positive ones) or a career good luck!

Hey dude, look my friend went threw the same thing. I guese its just time to move on from your old friends. With this new job you can make new friends who want what you want and know how to have fun without pot and drinking. So go ahead and push them away, meet new people. And if that dosent work out your old friends would take you back.

Just remember your friends for 10 years must have been with you threw all types of phases, so dont just drop em like a bad habit, tell them your situation.

you need to tell your friends that you need to start acting more mature for your upcoming job. Let them know that they are important to you and you would do anything for them. But like others are saying, you need to focus on your life and not on everyone else’s. Be sure to tell them nicely and not to pushy and dont make it sound like they need to change because you are. Your friends will understand. Hope all goes well.

                                      Kali