Why wont he ask me out! How can I help him?

I have this guy friend, I like him a lot, and im 99.99% sure he likes me back, hes a year older than, I 14, him 15, we met about 15 months ago, when I started a karate class, and have had a huge crush on him ever since, I’ve seen so manythings that tells me he likes me, this year we started going to school together and its nice because I see him all the time, hes a sophmore and im a freshman, we still the best of friends, and glance at eachother when ever we can, but through all this, I dont understand why he hasnt said anything, or why he hasnt asked me out yet, im old fashioned and think the guy should make the first move, but im not sure if or when he will, he puts off a tough front, he walks and talks and act tough (in a good way, not a cocky way) and its convincing, people are somewut afraid of him, and they know hes tough, but hes not rock solid, hes a totally softie, very emotional, deep person, definatly not what he portays…I dont know what to do! Hes shy, I want him to ask me out, I know he wants to he just needs to work up the courage, how can I help him along (the whole thing is he doesnt know that I know he likes me) so I want to help in a secret, hidden way that he can pick up on, but that doesnt involve much emotional confrontmant (like sitting and having an open conversation, I know what he’ll d) I want him to see, im here, I like him, im ready…so my question is…what can I do to help!? Help!!!

Answer #1

its cause he thinks you wont say yes just ask him out

Answer #2

start smiling at him look at him a lot more than usual just somehow make him know or you can tell a friend to tell him thats what I did

Answer #3

if he won’t ask you out then hint him in some way! or you could just ask him out! you can say, “hey do you want to go out sometimee?” and it’ll probably work.

Answer #4

well iunno about being old fasion. if you really really dont want to ask him then why dont you just flirt wtih him a little bit . that will tell him that you like him. . . I mean thats why they call it flirting. and kinda hint at it. like ask him if he want to hang out sometime or invite him to hang out with you and your friends and when you guys are hanging out pay just a little more attenchin to him and like stand bye him and stuff. use your hands to. if something funny happens like grab his hand when your laughing and like you going to fall on the ground laughing I guess you could say. but that really only works when something really really funny happens.

Answer #5

maybe the guy is shy to ask you but he could feel the some way your feeling so I will advise you make a move I think that is the only way you can help

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