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Why women only see me like a friend.

Im a good person and everyhting but most women see me just like a friend and I can never get a serious relationship any advice is welcome thank you.

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Answer #1

Hi Fito! I don’t know how old you are but if you just started dating a few years ago you might want to just blame on not finding the right person yet. It takes time to connect with poeple and find the person who’ll see you more as a potentiel partner then just friend. Also, I find some guys need to find older or more mature women because they are more mature then girls their own age. I have excelent guy friends that weren’t very popular in high school but had many admirers in university. Either way don’t get down on yourself because if you are friend material you are definetly lover materiel too! hope this helps some.

Answer #2

I went through the exact same thing when I was a little younger. Talk to lots of girls, even girls you aren’t interested in dating. If you are fairly reserved and finally talk to that one girl you’ve had your eye on, you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself and the ladies can tell. Women have an advantage over men in that they are the ones being approached 99 percent of the time. After having so many guys come up to them to flirt our ask them out, they get good at detecting someone who is insecure or not themselves, which sadly gets a lot of guys a one-way ticket to the dreaded friend zone. Practicing on girls who don’t make you want to feint is a good way to build your confidence with women in general (don’t lead these other girls on or anything, just make friendly conversation). Like anything else, you get better at handling social situations with practice. I hope this helps.

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