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Why aren't guys all over me anymore?

Heres the thing. I ALWAYS used to get compliments that I am “hott” or “cute” or “beautiful”. That doesn’t happen anymore.. and I feel like I’m hotter than ever! I’m confident about my looks and stuff is what i mean. I am a sophomore in highschool, and I just feel like all the seniors and juniors are way prettier than me! All the guys are always like “hey who are you dating” or “hey who are you checking out these days” and i just say “no one..” with kind of a flirty grin on. They just say “oh thats too bad. I have the best girl friend ever.” And it sucks! I definitely am NOT one of the boys… but i just get along with them so easy! I love being with them and hanging out with them, but still being one of the girls. I guess im not in such a bad situation. I’ve only been single for about 4 months.But im used to guys trying to be all over me all the time.. i dint like it when it happened but now that it doesnt i kind of miss it. I just wonder why alll the other grrls are SO lucky to have all these great guys that are my friends and WHY i cant get a guy that I want anymore!!! Advc plz

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Answer #1

Girl… you’re getting older, and eventually people learn that the spotlight isn’t on them all the time. You want the attention back but maybe you have to go earn it again… be more aggresive, flirtier and what not… not be a wh0re but you know what i mean. The older girls aren’t necesarily prettier but they’re the older ones and the hot commodity at the time. If you do nothing this year then the attention will probably be back in the coming years

Answer #2

Somtimes it takes a real adult to step back and analyze what once was, compared to what really is. The reality is, if you dont find yourself attractive, no one else will either. Stop trying to be one of the guys, your not! Do something to feel good about yourself, and stop worrying about all the attention. Make a note to self, to define “self preservation.?
Find out who you are and do it on purpose.

Answer #3

Life kinda goes in seasons - like winter-spring-summer-fall. The tide has to go out to come in again, sun has to set to come up tomorrow, that kind of thing.

So you’re not at the top right now…that’s OK… while the “tide is out” focus your attention on becoming the most awesome girl you can be, personality, fitness, academics, everything, so when the right guy does notice you he’s like “where have you BEEN girl?!” Or “Don’t tell anybody… I’m the luckiest guy on the planet!”

Better to be noticed and loved by the right guy than flirted with by them all.

Answer #4

be patient. i really dont see anyting u can do and even if u do someting that draws them back itll noly be temporary. and no, its not because the senior and junior girls are prettier. when a girl is new somewhere or just makes herself known, its normal guys to pay attention for a while then move on like a spotlight. but there are always some other guys who think u`re cute… just try to find out who they are…hope this helped… good luck

Answer #5

i think u should just wait god will put the right one in ur life

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