Why should I change?

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about a year now and he wants me to change for him. I have a lot of habits that he hates and he says I should change/take away them if I love him. Should I change my whole personality to fit his likings?

Answer #1

Those little habits are what make you unique and if he really loved you, he’d accept you for who you are. I think you should end this relationship, and find someone who will accept you for you.

Answer #2

teengirl56 She is not his slave and does not belong to him. She is a person with her own life to live. And I wish I could say this nicer, but seriously get up and get a life.

Answer #3

You shouldn’t change for anyone be you if he doesn’t like it then he should adjust to you not the other way around, if you change for him he might think he kan control you and make you do what ever he wants

Answer #4

Dont change you shouldnt have to he should like you for who you are you should have to change for any guy!!! Stay 4 who you are!!!

Answer #5

NO!!! Don’t change for a guy. You need to find a guy that like you for you, and everything that is you! You cant let him tell you to change for him if you love him. Tell him that if he loves you then he wont want you to change. hope this helps! :)

Answer #6

He loves you right?

Then he can love you just how you are.

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