Why my boyfriend (19 )had sex with 14y girl?

I think its good that he told you and was comfortable enough to do so…I think you shouldnt think too much about him having sex with her and not you..no one is sure how it all happend…but maybe if you want it you should be more forward about this other wise he may never know how you feel

You are jealous that he had a relationship with a fourteen year old girl? You feel that he will never be yours because of it? Look, your real worries should be about him because what he did was both perverted and illegal. Seriously, he slept with a minor- that’s just disgraceful. Do you really want to marry someone like that? Someone who used a young, innocent girl to satisfy himself? Well, it’s your life.

It’s understandable that you night be backing out on him because he had sex with someone young or because he’s not a virgin or whatever. But if you love him, I think that you should go for it… What happened was in the past and is in the past, this is the present now and what he wants in his life is you. But at the end I guess it’s all your choice, depending on what you ask for in a guy.

wow that sucks girl I feel for you. im the kind of person who dwells on the past (unfortunately) and I let little facts about my boyfriend past relationships really get to me. but if you do love him and want a life with him you should try to let yourself get comfortable with his past decisions. (easier said then done ik) but im sure he’s completely over her bc that was a long time ago. you should try to be ok and accepting just like you would want him to be if it was the other way around and you had a serious/sexual relationship previously. but follow your instincts and try to be strong ihope I helped you.

First of all, its kinda gross he had sex with 14 year old when he was 19. She was barly a teenager and he was an adult. And tons of guys these days probaly have had sexual relations with other girls before they settle down cause times have changed and girls are more wild. I know it sucs but these days things are differnt. If you really love him you just have to accept his past. good luck

uhm yeah… doesnt really matter

you can get married to him either way…