why moms be distrespectful to daughters?

You’re going to have to be way more specific. When I was younger, if things broke, I was probably the one who broke them… I mean my parents never made a big deal about it, but they didnt have to accuse me, I usually screamed for them because I was upset. As for going missing, uhm again, I dont think I’ve ever been blamed for that. It’s a rather unusual thing to be blamed for unless you’ve taken things?

wao poor thing I hope you didnt take the comment above personally… But I know what you meant by your question ans it {usually }happens in latin families us girls when we are little try to imitate our moms by taking her heels or taking their lipstick well at least I did, but is not like she was pissed you know if you meant why do moms usually go to their daughters first to ask for something missing in their closet or were ever maybe that’s why in your case :)

but dont take it to heart I mean I dont have a girl but I have a baby boy and parents LOVE their children no matter what

People either act out of fear or love. I suspect your mom is behaving out of fear. You may be able to figure it out. It may be something like: I have to act strong or else people will think I’m weak:

moms are moms…what can we do when they yell and scream…I fell you but um they love you enough 2 scream at u…[: