How can I get my sister to chill without seeming like a Mom?

I have a 15 year old sister, but she is about to turn 16 years old. My sister leaves far away. Actually she is having problems. My sister is out of controll. She is doing thing that she will lament later in life . Well me and my sister are close how do I tell her to take a chill pill without out her thinking that I am trying to be her mother. Please help!

Answer #1

Just let her know she’s everything to you and you don’t want to see her hurt or get off to a bad start in life….lifes choices have consequences….ask her to please make good choices for her sake and yours….I wish you both the very best !

Answer #2

It’s okay to tell her what you think about her behavior and let her feel however she wants about it. You are family, you are her sister and you do it out of love.

Don’t sit idly by while someone you love is ruining their life. In life, we all have to learn to speak up to people we love, even if they get mad at us or don’t agree. Just sit her down and tell her you love her and what your concerns are. Ask her how she’s feeling, tell her you’ll be there for her, and just don’t give up. Unconditional love is there and she’ll feel that, no matter how mad she gets.

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