why is truly loving someone so hard?

why is it that when you really love someone and you just “know” you love them… you have to suffer to be with them? its killing me… it hurts so bad.. everything just stops in our way… especially when you just cant do anything about it, because if you do, u’ll get in trouble and everything will just end because of “adults” , the “mature” ones “who know you better than you know urself” -_- it hurts, I swear it hurts :’S I dont wanna suffer to be with someone but I have to because I just love them SO MUCH!!

Answer #1

can tell your not in love as you dont understand love…

if you did you wouldnt need to ask the question ‘Why is truly loving someone so hard?’

your young and dont understand, but as you grow you will…

Answer #2

love only hurts when you break up loving someone is when they take your breath away because they make you so happy just being around them makes you happy

Answer #3

It’s ok…The main reason is because when we really love someone, we are vulnerable…we are a scared cause it is a risk…we sacrifice things, we want to be with them all the time…lol…we are afraid they will leave us…all those crazy emotions come together!!! lol…Welcome to LOVE…It gets easier when you become more trusting and more confident, and that takes time with someone…

Answer #4

It doesn’t hurt because I’m with them it hurts when I hear them crying on the phone because their parents are takin the phone from him and he won’t be able to call again for about 4 months… I didn’t mean love itself I meant why does my life make it hard for me to feel free to just express how much I love him.. It’s been only 4 hours and my head hurts from crying :’( it’s like.. Someone shot me when his mom told me she won’t let him talk to me for 4 months … What do I do now? There’s no way I can get to him :( NO WAY AT ALL!!! I’m dyin already :’’’( I swear It hurts when his mom does this…

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