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Why is this so confusing, help!?

So I’m talking to this boy who is really sweet and he makes me smile and he’s exactly the kind of guy I need in my life and I don’t want do anything to mess my chances up. But then I’ll be chillin with some guys that are just there for fooling around and I don’t know if it’s bad for me to fool around with these guys while I’m talking to the other guy. I like having a guy around just for the fun stuff but I still want the other guy to keep me happy. Please help. I don’t know what to do!

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Answer #1

If you really like the guy and you see him as boyfriend material then you really shouldn’t do things to mess up your chances with him like you said. Messing around with other guys just for the fun of it will totally mess up the chances for that, maybe not now but when he finds out most def!! I mean you’re old enough to figure out that guys aren’t into “easy” girls, especially not for dating material if you know what I mean. And it’s not that I’m saying you’re easy but that is what you come across as when you do this, hope you understand.

If you are serious about this guy then stop your fooling and try to take things into the next step with him. Well I wish you the best luck on this one, and just remember to make the right decisions ;)

Answer #2

Don’t worry about it. Guys don’t like it when girls only hang out with other girls. and it will make you seem hard to get and he will be more interested

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