Why is this happening to me?

Ok, I feel like a normal teenager, but my mom is not letting me grow up. She wont let me do anything. I cant text my friends or talk to them.(there are a lot more things) I feel depressed all the time when Im at home. School is my safe haven and the only place I can feel happy. If my mom is in a bad mood, my simple questions turn her into a bull and she asks for reasons why I am so careless and why I only think about myself. I have had to give her my cellphone, camera, and ipod all because I asked her If she could help me with my math homework. She called me stupid and I have been called a biiittt ccchhh and a little shi ittt many times. She says she regrets having me. I am emotionally abused by someone who I thought would love me and encourage me, not bring me down everytime I did a simple mistake, lost in a competition, got one problem wrong on a test, or even texted my friend in front of her. ( I now have to leave my phone downstairs and pic it up every morning) She acts as if everything is ok and then all of a sudden her mood changes and I am the one who has to suffer through it. She asks me why I make her say all these things, I jsut have to say I will stop being the way I am and I wont do anything bad again, but I dont know what I am doing thats “bad.” She doesnt know that I have tried so hard to just be normal and everything I do has been twisted and turned around by her. What is wrong with me? what did I do? What should I do?

Answer #1

There is nothing wrong with you at all you havnt done anything wrong do you have a dad? can you stay at a friends? tell a guidence counselor or someone a trusted teacher even

Answer #2

Your mom might be biopolar or something, that means that it can cause her to have crazy mood swings. Talk to someone of the extended family or like someone that you trust. I think that your mom does love you and all but her emotions are just not coraporating with her. So talk to someone and meaby from there she can get some help, as well as you for what she has made you go trough.

Answer #3

I thik your mom is bipolar and thers nothing wron with you is her what you need to do is go with your mom to a psychiatrist

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