Why is she talking crap about me?

Hi I am new to this so hey. I am 16, My friend keeps spreading crap about me, I don’t know what to do, I have no other friends so, what do I do? I can make new ones yes, but what to do about my ex friend spreading crap about me?

Answer #1

People talk bulls4 about other people for one reason- to feel better about themselves. A friend of mine (We’ll call her A) told me recently she had a friend of hers telling guys she liked that A was a lesbian, when she isn’t. A got harassed by a bunch of guys the next day at school, telling her “but such-and-such told us you were a lesbian!” If I were in A’s position, I would have whipped around and said “Yeah? Did she also tell you that she tries to spread bulls4 about her mates, because she thinks it’ll make her look hot to gullible losers like yourselves?”

The point I’m trying to make is this: People who talk bulls4 about you are not your friends, and if someone else is dumb enough to believe things others say about you, they aren’t worth your time either. A real friend won’t judge you, and will accept you just as you are.

Answer #2

I know what you mean! Drama sucks and you are right in the middle of it. You should try hanging out with more males, because its mostly girls that are all drama. When I got tired of it I started making older friends that werent in with that and were males so you dont have to bother with it, good luck!

Answer #3

listen some girls just feen off drama, trust me one of my close friends did the same thing. they feel cooler when they gossip or spread rumors, dont stress over it cause karmas going to be a bigger b*tch then you could ever be =]

Answer #4

A true friend cares about you, supports (when appropriate), and has you best interests at heart - get some of those - they can last a lifetime…I wish you the best !!

Answer #5

Go out and be a friend to make a new friend - forget that one, definately NOT your friend !!

Answer #6

I’ve been throught this kind of junk too many times. For the most part, you just have to try to completely ignore all the crap she says about you. If people know you two aren’t friends anymore, why should they even believe her?

Answer #7

My friends did that 2, and its not right 2 seek revenge. So don’t do it back2 her. But just show her that u can b just as rude as her. And find new friends. And don’t talk to her your obviously way 2 good 2 have friends like that. So take my advice and find new friends.

Answer #8

And I wasnt spreading crap. :) Buh bye.

Answer #9

The thing is I broke up the friendship with her, she wasn’t a good friend anyway, she blew me off for other things, always expected me to go to her house and never come to mine, ditch me, that kind of stuff. She has turned a lot of people against me. Even her mom glares at me (she is a sub teacher at the school). It’s weird.

Answer #10

Make New Ones. As for her,Let her do it. Itll show who the bigger perosn in the situattion is;;You. Anyone Thatll believe her is obviously as dumb as her. So,if I were you, Id Let her keep talking,Its Only hurting Herself :]

Answer #11

Wow, my ex friend is talkin crap about me too. Ever since we became non-bffs. I dont talk about her, but my friend Cathy has been telling me that in her community art class, my ex friend has been talkin about me with some other chick she became friends with. Im like, thats nice. So now I talk about her. I know thats immature but I told her I would if she didnt stop. Well obviously it doesnt bother her. And now she is trying to steal my cousins friendship with me. Ugh, I cant stand her. If I were you I would just take everone above me advice. Good Luck, and your not alone.

Answer #12

Okay people. We made up now. And no my mom is not a substitute teacher. I was kinda suspicious that it was my (ex bff) wrinting this. Also I broke off the friendship, but I had my reasons lets say. Besides we ARE true friends, because we are bffs again. Dont know how it happened but it did. We missed eachother and well its not fun without eachother. Im sure the terachers will be happy that we sill be talking in class again! Lol.

Answer #13

Well I know that, I meant to put ex friend not friend.

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