Why is my guy friend giving me a silent treatment?

I am in 10th grade now, and I knew this guy since 7th grade. I disliked him at first in junior high because he would try to annoy me, like making a gagging noise as he walks by me, or do that spiderman thing on me, etc. Eventually, we became friends in 9th grade. He became much less annoying on me since then. He even told me that I’m a really awesome person and told a group of guys that I am like the prettiest girl at school. Even one day, he wanted to ask me to go out with him, instead he wanted his friend to ask me out for him, but he got so scared he ran away. This year, we haven’t been talking that much but normally, when he always see me, he would say hey (my name)! And because I really do like him as a friend, I thought I would just go have fun with him by going behind his back while he was talking to his friends and poke his shoulder and then hide from him. He liked what I did at first, but then the third time, I did the same thing, he just looked at me and gave me a small hand wave only. That was last month, and since that time, he stopped talking to me. Now, he won’t talk to me or anything, and he just looked at me, he won’t even say just a hey or something. And I am known to be a REALLY quiet, sensitive person. I feel like he is my only guy friend whom I thought I could talk to, but since he has been giving me a silent treatment for the past three weeks, I feel really uncomfortable. I don’t know what is going on. Am I more likely to be annoying to him? Did I do something wrong? Or maybe he have that sudden thought of liking me that he started being afraid to talk to me? help!

Answer #1

I have the same problem…kind. except I really like the guy and we grew up together. his mom is really…protective. one day I was texting the guy and he told me he loved me. I was like I love you to. well hes not supposed to text because something happened with the girl I really hate. any way so his mom caught him texting me and saw the text from me saying I loved him. so he got grounded. I was like WTF! so when I saw him the next day I was like this is pathetic. I guess I cant blame him becaus I bagged on how retarded his mom is the whole time. so now he gives me the silent treatment. but to fix that I just texted his friend told him to tell the guy im sorry and “ohi-boke” which is arabic for I love you. maybe you can try that… need anymore advice? FUN MAIL ME!

Answer #2

Guys can be SO weird sometimes. but why don’t you get him when he’s alone, and talk to him about it? If you were really close friends a while ago, then just ask him what’s wrong and why he’s giving you the silent treatment, you thought you were friends. btw, I think he totally liked you last year and the year before!!! ;) hope this helped, and funmail me for more help if you want!

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