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Why is my friend acting like this?

So my ‘so called’ friend is normal when its just her and I or if we are with our other friends,but she goes all b*tchy when a guy friend a like and have chance of dating comes near(we are actually together now) This same guy would always hang out with us, and she was fine, but as soon as we started to talk more(may I add..I did not ignore,ditch, or avoid her to talk to him) she went all blahh!!! I don’t know what the prob is. She always does that though..We think she may have a crush on me(trust me its possible!) or she is jealous of me. But why? She has always been my number one friend even through the roughest of times and she just gets mad at me. Im not hiding anything from her and its not like she cant get out and get a boyfriend(or girlfriend) When I ask her wats going on, she cant seem to answer me or tries to blow me. See I always reassure her that I care about her like a good friend should. I just feel like giving up. Im sorry its a lot to read, but I wouldnt be writing all this if I truely didnt care. I hope you can help shed a little light on whats going on, I would really apprieciate it!

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Yes, I care a lot about her. We’ve been friends for 3 years but it seems like forever. Every weekend we were together,we were inseparable, but it just seemed to stop, just that quick. I know some friendships die down, people change and all that stuff, but Im not ready to change, and I wish she felt the same. If we cant work it out then I need to learn how to move on. I don’t want to, but sometimes things don’t always turn out the way you wan’t. If she doesn’t want to be friends, thats her decision, but what is gonna bother me the most is Why? Why is she ‘just now’ getting upset? I tell her time and time again, “Im your girl. Anybody messes with you, and Ima rip their face off!” Well I don’t use that particular phrase, but you get my point. Jeez!! Why does this have to be so hard? It hurts you know?!

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