Why is my ex dating my double?

ok this is really bugging me. my ex and I broke up after like 8 motnhs, he dumped me and we still liked eachother for a few months after and then he met this new girl, she looks like me and is sorta like me in personality too..anyways he made a huge deal about how he likes her better than he ever liked me even though shes not as pretty as I am (yes he actually said that about her).as long as he;s "liked" her theyve never been on an actual date and hes never made a move, so what the heck is he just trying to bug me! If he wants a girl like me then why not me!! what can I do about this…

Answer #1

There could be all kinds of reasons why your X might date a girl who looks like you. It could be as you've implied–he got a girl who looks like you, but not as good, and he's not intimate with her, never been on an actual date, etc. . .

Or

It could be he was 1st attracted to this girl because she reminded him of his X, and she might not be as outwardly pretty–but she's oh so beautiful on the inside, and he hasn't actually been intimate with her because he has so much respect for her and doesn't want to mess anything up. Right now, he's just hanging out with her, taking it slow, hoping it lasts.

That's the thing–you can't know why. And you can't 2nd guess. And you should be moving on. And why you know or think you know so much about your X's habits is not healthy.

Leave him alone to live his life and you move on with yours.

blessings and good luck

Answer #2

you may be a little to demanding. sometimes when women are a little to pushy or a little too picky.. they push the person they love away.

p.s. men tend to date the same kind of women over and over again

Answer #3

Cuz he likes the same type girl, nothin wrong with it, its very common

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