Why is my boyfriend so distant from me?

End the relationship. 3 mos. isnt your entire life. Him just wanting sex is an obvious sign that he isnt interested in you, just what you can do for him. Sex doesnt make a relationship, and its doesnt keep one from falling apart. Never give in to sex early in a relationship. When the physical part of the relationship races ahead of everything else, it can almost become the focus of the relationship. The couple then arent developing all of the really important skills like trust and communication and all those things that are the key ingredients for a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Next time save sex for a much later time. If you want to win a man’s heart, do not sleep with him immediately. An honest man will tell you that if you have sex with a girl on a first date, you may enjoy it, but you are almost certain not to want to date her because you were simply too easy. Men are hunters, then enjoy the chase, and the longer it goes on, the greater the respect and the more likely you will win his heart.