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Why is my boyfriend so distant from me?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3months now. In the beginning everything was going so well, but I can admitt; that things were moving fast. Every thing has change for the couple of weeks as far as: he only wants to have sex when he wants it. He says he needs his space so we don’t see each other every day. When I call him at night he does’nt answer. a lot a lot of changes . What should I do?

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Answer #1

End the relationship. 3 mos. isnt your entire life. Him just wanting sex is an obvious sign that he isnt interested in you, just what you can do for him. Sex doesnt make a relationship, and its doesnt keep one from falling apart. Never give in to sex early in a relationship. When the physical part of the relationship races ahead of everything else, it can almost become the focus of the relationship. The couple then arent developing all of the really important skills like trust and communication and all those things that are the key ingredients for a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Next time save sex for a much later time. If you want to win a man’s heart, do not sleep with him immediately. An honest man will tell you that if you have sex with a girl on a first date, you may enjoy it, but you are almost certain not to want to date her because you were simply too easy. Men are hunters, then enjoy the chase, and the longer it goes on, the greater the respect and the more likely you will win his heart.

Answer #2

but I admit, that things were moving fast -it explains everything. if your rush things, the outcome may not be as good as what you wanted it to be. say you’re constructing a building/house. if you hurry it up from the usual time-frame of construction, expect it not to have a solid/firm foundation. same as for any relationship.

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