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Me and best friends are together from past two years,though she is my junior at school.we are the best of friends.my old friends always warned me about her,but I never took it seriously.lately a new guy joined my class who is her senior.he is handsome and I had a crush on his best friend but now I got over him...ever since the guy joined the school I got to know he speaks about me in a good way.he tells people she is a good looking girl and she can get a better guy and all.I used to share every secret with my friend(who is a girl).she always used to say this guy is better looking but im not interested in him.both of us used to pull his leg,all though we never spoke to him ,we used to laugh at his face.he never mind that...later me and him became good friends..he approached me first,he used to indirectly flirt with me,he used to check my a social site profile..I used to tel my friend every single thing we used to chat..all though I never had feelings for him..but I never knew what was on his mind.I told him that me and my friend enjoy pulling your leg..he said he doesnt mind..when I pull his leg he enjoys but but when my frnd does he completely ignores her,infact he runs away seeing her,when my friend tried to talk to him he turned his face away.my friend gets irriated by that..she keeps defending herself I dont like him..when I do something he gets mad but when you do it he doesnt mind,why???.im more popular and prettier than my friend and I some how started to feel she wasnt liking me talking to this guy..but this guy is a friend of mine..he made me forget my ex and when im with him I forget my worries..he has a girlfriend too..lately my friend told me to ask him why is he scared of her.he gt mad he said yes im scared you please ask your friend to spare me..do you think she luks scary??he asked me that...later he stopped runing away from her and stared lukin at her more confidently..and my friend got excited about it ,she says now he is behaving like a man...when he told me to tell her all that..she started fighting with me...she got so aggressive I couldnt believe she would behave like that.I was like what did I do?I seriously dont know the reason for her behaviour.I was like if you dont like it I wont talk to him I dont want to lose you..she became sarcastic no I dont want to disappoint you talk to him any way I don't like him..I was like why are you justifying yourself so much?if you dont have anything for him...the guy always changes the topic whenever I talk about my friend.and also gave me his number..he said you can contact me through this..I didnt tell my friend about it because I know she wouldnt like it.plzzz guys why is she behaving like this?was she just using me because im her senior and popular and influential?why is she fighting with me for a guy whom we hardly know?what does that guy think about her and me?should I trust this girl or not?
honestly this has happpened to me not to long ago, and what I found out one day that she was actually jealous of who I was becomming friends with.she thought that since we were hanging out, her status would automatically change. but when 1 person didn't want to tlk to her as much as they wanted to tlk to me, she thought that her popularity was decreasing. and she argued with me for no reason because she was confused and scared of what happened next, she also did this because she wanted to walk in my shoes. she wanted to be me! and the more she was drifting away from that, the more upset she became. so what I did was wait until there was absolutly no one comming around us and asked her the question that I was wondering...y are you mad at me do you want me to stop hanging out with him or is it something elese?...and if your friend tells you she doesn't want you hanging out with him, then you have to think which friend would benefit you more, your friend who you think is jealous, or the guy who doesn't like her...you also have to think about this, what if someone said something to him about her. that might be the reason for the friction between them to. and maybe you can resolve this and everyone can get along...
maybe she wanted to use you so she can look cool in front of him and other guys...but when she found out that he liked you insted of her then she got pissed...and now shes jealous...I thnk thats wats going on.
well I dont think you should trust her 100% and if the guys a really good friend then you should stick wit him
