Why is it that guys are so jealous!?

Hmph, sounds like my father. He was a jealous man. My mom thought it was him loving her so she put up with it. She thought it was cute at first, but then it turned into him controlling her. And it will happen with her too if it gets too far. My dad never hit her (I think once though that I remember, but I was young) but he would rough handle her. Almost similar to her situation. And as for kids. My mom had 6. I’m the 4th. One day she realized she couldn’t do it anymore. This wasn’t love, it was control. So she got out. She had no college degree, no home, 6 kids. We lived at a friend’s house for a short while until we found a 3 bedroom house. She went to school and worked 3 jobs to support us, because my father didn’t let us leave with nothing but the clothes on our back… and whatever we managed to sneak off with. We went through hardships, financiallly, emotionally, physically. However, never once did she regret her decision. Never did she wish she could go back to my dad if only for the comfort. As for us kids? It was very hard on us, but we never blamed nor hated our mom for her decision. I am so proud of her, and what she did. She is the strongest woman in my life.

Look, all guys are naturally jealous, we like girls and if we find one… sometimes we can be afraid to lose them. But the jealousy has to be within moderation. If that jealousy becomes control… well then that is when it becomes dangerous.

I’ll be happy to talk more about it, so message me or something. I hope this helps