Why is he doing this?

I was with this guy and we were kicking it for a while I fell in love with him and I told him I wanted a relationship and he told me that he loved me too but couldn’t give me what I needed cause he was going through some things and that when it was over we could possibly give it a go. Why did he do that why couldn’t we just get together and go through our stuff togather rather apart isn’t that what relationships are about isnt that what love is about helping each other and just being there. Why did he do that

Answer #1

well I was in his position too I was thinking about asking a girl but I had to wait for things to cool down with me and my ex. we were cursing at each other and everything and I wanted to wait before I asked her, I don’t know, its just a thing guys do. plus, he is showing you how much he likes you if he doznt want to drag you into wutever it is

Answer #2

Some guys don’t want to bring girls into their problems, depending on what kind of problems they are. he might be trying to avoid a relationship by making up excuses. There could be several reasons why he did that, the only way to find out the truth is to ask for the truth.

Answer #3

Because he needs to go through whatever it is he’s going through. Maybe he doesn’t want you to have to put up with what his problems are going to bring.

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