Why is he being so hurtful?

Some people are just insensitive. Sounds like this could be the case here. Think back. Is he a golden rule kind of person? (do onto others as you would have others do onto you).

My ex and I have been “working on things” for six months. We went to therapy. blah blah. Anyway She would do things to intentionaly hurt me. example: She picked up my phone and started going through it. me being a confident honest person watched on as she investigated looking for some reason to get mad. She found that a had a mutual friend and mutual co workers (she works with her too) number in my phone. No calls. no messages. just a number. so she sets it down and says its ok derek I have been seeing other guys. I went out on dates with the qb of …big pac 10 college… football team. Ouch.

Point is these are misserable people. I dont want to hurt anyone. most people dont. Even if they hurt me. (emotionally anyway. physically different story.) It sounds like this guy wants a reaction from you. I would agree that he moved on but he contacted you and said he missed you. and there is no way he didnt think you wouldnt see that aim thing. Just move on. so hard to do and I know you have thought of it yourself. But keep it simple. If he is not aware of your feelings than you dont want him.. If he tries to hurt you to get you to show your feelings than you definatly do not want him…

tough to answer because I am currently trying to figure out my x gfs… brain.

feel free to ask me further advise.. take care

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