why I keep getting second thaughts about have sex?

OMG you are only 13 thats why you are having 2nd thoughts, because your 2 young your body is not ready for this. Remember protection doesn’t always work. I know it’s hard to control sexual tention but you have to, until you have matured more. I mean imagine if you got pregnat your life would be ruined you probably wouldn’t go to school anymore because u’d have a child to look after. Also u’d have to make hard decisions like abortion or adoption. Maybe for now just stick with dry.

You are getting second thoughts because your intuition is telling you it’s not the right time. It’s trying to warn you that something bad may happen afterwards. You are only 13 and should be having sleepovers with friends, not worried about having sex. If he is pressuring you and keeps bringing it up after you have said “No” then he doesn’t really love you and will leave once he’s had enough. I hate to be so harsh about it, but it’s true. I was with my first “love” 8 months before we had sex. Once we did the deed he was off to the next girl he could find. At 13, you are just not ready for all the responsibility having sex opens up. If I were you, I would continue saying no. If you do ever say yes to him please, please wear a condom and get some birth control. You should always take care of what you want first and save the rest for later. If you truly, in your heart and gut, don’t want to have sex, then by all means it is your right not to.

You shouldn’t have sex until you are really ready mentally and pyhsically.