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Why can't I get pregnant?

Well. I been try get pregnant for almost a whole year now. So I stopped take birth control pill last year of this time. Now it still haven’t happened and we have sex 2 0r 3 time a week and have did it every day. Could the fact he drink a lot be a decrease at my chance? Are what can I do. From position and style and myths. I just want a child before he goes off to the army. I even had ovulation calendar online that tell me when I’m fertile and had sex those days. What could be wrong and it starting to make me feel as if I can’t had kids? We never use a condoms and doctor say negative of any sexually transmitted disease, but I am afraid to discuss I can have a child with my doctor it embarrassing. Please help me tell me what to do..

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Answer #1

WOW!!! That girl was very rude, I would like to know who she is to judge anybody.To the first girl, how do you know just because she types bad that she has not finished school? Got news for you you missed spelled words too. And to the other girl, You have NOOO idea if this girl is ready or not. Just because she mention her husband drinkin does not mean anything. It really depends on how she takes care of her body. I do agree with the third answer, you should think about what would happen if your husband was to not come back? Anyways, my husband and I have been trying for over a year now and it has not happen yet. He will give you your gift when he feels ready…so just wait. Good Luck.

Answer #2

Of course consider what the other people say trying to talk you out of having a child.

Also consider that we are at war so your guy going in the Army means there is a chance he could die or return disabled. Depending on your relationship this might make you want to have a child all the more.

Living hard can decrease your guy’s sperm count and quality but young men usually have such high sperm counts that it isn’t a concern. The only person who can tell you if you or your guy have fertility issues is a doctor. Why are you uncomfortable talking about infertility with your doctor? You should consider your doctor someone who you can talk about anything with.

Answer #3

Dear angie, Be thankful you didn’t get pregnant…you would be bring a child into a family that couldn’t care for him/her. You are no where near ready to be a mother…how dare you try to bring a child into this world that could have many dysfunctions because of your husbands drinking and your immaturity. Get back on birth control and start using condoms. You’re not ready. Sue…good luck

Answer #4

God plays alot in these roles, Are you ready for a child? Is everything in order? My husband went away also, and we didnt have a child yet, and i think it was the best thing, because when your alone, and have a child (which i have 2 now) it isnt too easy, especially when you miss your spouse. Then when they come back you think you need a break so you start to push the child on them, believe me this happens to a lot of people. then you argue, i mean it depends on where your at in a relationship. Where are you guys at? How old are you, are you married? Think about all of that stuff. From the way you type, and it not making too much sense, you need o either finish school, or think about your life for a minute before you bring an innocent child inoto the workd. And on another note, if you truly belive your ready, then i would say the next step is to see if both of you are fertile.

Answer #5

ihave been married for 13 years and I have a 18 year old but my husband cant get me pregnanct.

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