Why I am so clingy? am I going to lose my boyfriend?

Would it be too obvious to say stop being clingy?

Could you explain what you mean by clingy behavior, and why you feel the need to engage in this behavior if you feel it is clingy?

the good part is, YOU ARE recognising the fact that you are being clingy! now you just need to stop it, do things to keep yourself busy, have a life that doesn’t JUST revolve around your boyfriend, find things that you love doing, and do them well, he’ll be attracted to your sudden change of lifestyle as you’ll be more independant

so I should start reading, drawing, painting and hanging around with my friends more? I dont know why I’ve been clingy we would both text a lot and call a bit but he doesnt like talking on the phone. I think the best thing for me to do is do things I love to keep me busy and wait for him to text instead :) because I’ve realised I can start to do it better.

lol, you have your own answer. Question is, why are you being clingy? Dont you trust him? Or do you freak out thinking he’s going to leave? Because being clingy is not the solution to either of these problems, and is more likely to drive him to do the behavior you’re afraid of.

yeah I hate feeling like that. just analyze everything you do around him for a while until the faze has passed. try to have separate time with friends. if you guys have another couple you hang out with have the guys go to the bar and the girls do something else fun. that’s what I do.