why have I never had an orgasm?

well I have had an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, but not a vaginal orgasm, I’ve been sexually active for almost a year now with only one guy, he is very large if you get me, and I was wondering, have I never had a vaginal orgasm because he goes straight past my g-spot? he keeps saying there must be something wrong with me which is really upsetting me and now I want to know seriously why its not happening :(

Answer #1

There’s nothing wrong with you (apart from perhaps your questionable taste in men). A lot of women dont have vaginal orgasms.

‘Many women — about one out of three — have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex with a partner. Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration. So if a woman is having difficulty reaching orgasm, she may want to try clitoral stimulation during, before, or after vaginal intercourse and oral sex to have an orgasm. Keep in mind, every woman’s body responds differently to various kinds of sex play. Each woman has different preferences for the ways in which she likes to be stimulated.’

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/sex-masturbation/sexual-satisfaction/some-facts-female-orgasm-25404.htm

Answer #2

Nothing wrong with you…If your boyfriend wants to help you out, he can stimulate your clit with his finger or thumb while he is inside you at first then you will slowly get used to it and possibly eventually you will be able to have one strictly for vaginal stimulation. it is nothing you are doing wrong…

Answer #3

Well, maybe you’re like me, you can’t feel the orgasim but its’ happened. sometimes when I masterbate, I feel like I’m going to have one, but I just start shaking and soon, I’m buckling my knees and it feel’s like it’s going to happen any second… but then the feeling goes away and my face gets hot. happens to a lot of women. you just don’t notice it.

Answer #4

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