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Why dose my mom want me to respect her if she does not respect me??

Ok lately my mom has been in a bad mood(the klast 2 days) and she has been kickpicking at every single little thing I do and yesterday at dinner she orderd pizza with peperonie as we thought but she realy order peperchinies.and they were discusting and my day said they were and so she took his plate away and said he could make something for himself.and so he did.but now she is putting the anger on me and yelling at me like it is my fault she and my dad are fighting.so now she no longer sais “please” or “thank you” or “can you” she just demands and now if I dont do it she threatins to send me to live with my real mom(who ia a drug adict.)so how can I make her respect me hithout confrunting her??(she would flip if I asked for more respect) Thanks ~jessi* ♥

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Answer #1

Sounds like she’s just having a bad couple of days …you said yourself, it’s just been a couple of days. Be patient, next week things will be different. Haven’t you ever had a ‘bad week’?

Answer #2

First of all, how much mom shouts/beats scolds u, then also you have to respect dear. Always respect your mother as HEAVEN lies at her feet, what do you know, when will be your last moments with her?

Answer #3

Your Mother is feeling unappreciated. You need to let her know you do appreciate everything she does. ask her what you can do to help her and then follow through with it.

Answer #4

You have to understand that she may be going through something personal in her life that is making her so emotionally unstable. Women go through these emotional roller coasters, you’re a young woman you should already be aware of these. Instead of confronting her about problems, try doing a little extra for her without her having to ask it of you. For example, try doing some chores or making her dinner… Anything that might seem to make her life easier. Obviously, something is going on wrong because you make it seem like she wasn’t always this way. . . Maybe she feels overwhelmed lately.

Answer #5

Just talk to her about how it makes you feel,not just for respect.Hope I helped!Ally;)

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