Why dont I have my period yet and is this natrual?

Ok so I am 13 and I dont have my period yet! So like I been having clear/white discharge for 9 days now. Freaked out at first because thought that was my eggs …well anyways. My friends,mom say they get it for about a week then it stops then they get their period. My discharge is not stinky and stuff but willl I be getting my period soon because I have been going thru some syptoms since I was 8 . Everything happpend im just waiting for my p-didy 2 come along so I can get overit, I cant really ask my mom when she got it because she had hrs at the age of 9. And I passed that. So when shud I get mine ? And is it alright if I use tampons at first?kk thnx your a huge help!

Answer #1

For one, please don’t ever call your menstrual cycle your ‘’p-didy’’ ever again. It’s a mark of womanhood, and I think it deserves to be called it’s actual name at the very least.

Second, you aren’t missing anything. I know at your age it may be embarrassing to not be on your period, but the longer you can avoid it, the better.

Third, discharge doesn’t indicate that your period is coming. It’s something that all women get throughout the day, week, etc. Who knows when it’s coming. You say you’ve been ‘’having symptoms’’ for awhile, but there aren’t really symptoms of it at all. It shows up and then you experience symptoms. There aren’t warning signs.

As for the tampon, you can use it at any time, but you might want to get familiar with pads first. I didn’t wear a tampon until I was 16, but that’s because I didn’t like the idea of shoving something in my hole down there. It was odd to me. If you feel comfortable wearing a tampon, you’ll likely need a slim or ultra slim one to fit inside you. Then be sure to wear a pad or panty liner in case you leak.

Just be patient and that ugly red monster will rear its head in no time.

Answer #2

Honey, calm down this is natural, I got my p plates when I was14 and I had the same as u. There is no set time or age, remember we are all very different women. It’s good that you told your mum though. My boyfriend just blames evrything on my pms.

Answer #3

just be lucky you dont have it now…it honestly suckss

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