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Why don't I enjoy it as much?

I’m 18 and I’m in a relationship. He jokes that I am a sex addict because I have a high sex drive, my last boyfriend and I had sex more than once a day, most days. My current boyfriend doesn’t want it as much, which is ok because he is very good in bed. Lately I haven’t been enjoying it as much, some positions are good but I am getting quite bored and stressed because I cant orgasm. I can’t tell him because I have already complained we don’t have enough sex and other things.

I’m not really looking for help advice but writting it down makes me feel a little better.

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Answer #1

Well, since you aren’t looking for advice, per se, call this a conversational response.

It’s odd to me that you don’t feel that you can talk about this with your boyfriend. If my girlfriend were not enjoying having sex with me, the last thing I would want her do to is suffer through it anyway. I’d want to talk about what she thought had changed, what she would prefer, what I would prefer. The only possible results that could come of such a conversation is that things improve or you realize that you’re incompatible sexually, but I’d wager the former is far more likely.

If he were miserable with your sex life, would you want him to keep it to himself?

Answer #2

I hear that a lot.

Minus the ‘’how,’’ ‘’right’’ and ‘’are.’’

Answer #3

I hate how right you are.

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