Why doesn't he like me back or why won't he tell me he does?

what I’ve discovered is that GUYS DON’T TELL YOU HOW THEY FEEL… it sucks I know because I have the same problem and im looking all ovr for advice on wht to do…but if he says he doesnt like you that way then take it and accept it and just be friends with him…guys are confusing I’ve read so many things saying that they told a guy they liked him and he won’t talk to them anymore…I guess its just how guys are and if its his first time going into a relationship then you have to accept that hes confused and doesnt want to make a mistake…I hope im making sense sometimes I feel like im not soo yea hope I helped at least a little bit…=]

Just because you like someone doesnt mean hes gonna like you back! We all have different tastes in what we like, so if hes not attracted to you, dont blame yourself. You just have to let go, and someday youll find someone who will give those feelings back to you! That doesnt mean you should stop talking to him, but just let go of the fact that he probably doesnt like you “that way”. Just dont read so much into his behavior.

Your to young to be worried about this stuff, relax, if he likes you enough he will let you know when he is ready. Till then just keep talking and hanging out.

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I am going through this to and I mean ireally like him and he said that he dont like me he likes this other girl and my friends just say talk to him forget that you lke him and it will make him crazy thing does she like still? or no she doesnt and then he might feel the need to talk to you and stuff but I don’t know I am like really going though this and I have no idea either and I mean I really like this boy too,.

Ok, yea, I know this feeling. OMG! It hurts so bad right? I read through all these answers, but seriously, it might be like that in America? But my family moved from Germany, to Singapore and now we live in Shanghai. I am freakishly crushing on this guy, and I had a touch rugby tournament today. And on the bus, everyone was like. HEY! Do you know who the name of a girl likes? It’s *. It hurt sooo bad…I mean, everyone knows that I like him…And I mean EVERYONE! From Y6 to Y13s… I’ve liked him for 9 months now. Someone help me…

Just so you know, it’s probably a bad idea to tell him you like him more than once. Guys your age are totally afraid of commitment, and to them, that’s what a relationship is. If you tell a guy you like him, he’s gonna end up thinking that he’s ALL you think about and that simply because you like him you want to date him. It’s just the way guys are, if I were you I’d wait a little longer, but it’s your choice. Do what feels right.

I think I know how some of you feel. if he likes you then wohooo, and if he doesnt oh well its his lost I know it sounds cheesy but were all great in our own ways. If yall arent talkin than just say I still want to be friends and see how that goes.

ok look i totaly no how you feel i liked this guy for ever …..we would talk on the internet…..hang out in school, out of school, once and i while i was at his house…and it seemed like we both we into each other…anyways one night i dicided to just go for it she what he really thought of me…i was told he didnt like me….but about 3 or 4 days ago he told me that he actually did like me and that pushing me away was the biggest mistake ever……but i was already with someone else….so i told him hey its in the past now and there is nothing we can do to change that….and he said yes thats true …and its also unforatnate…so my point is men are confussing and are harder to get through to….so sometime when your alone…better in person talk to him about the way you feel…if you tell him over the internet he wont belive you ….because he has no proof it is you and doesnt want anyone to know he cares about you …..so talk to him (IN PERSON)

Wow I have the exact same problem EXACTLY THE SAME. and yeah everyone is teling me get over him you deserve better but I cant get over him I really cant everything you have said has happend to me exactly but he said I like someone else but I didnt really believe that anyway what I think is to just let things happen try not to worry try as hard as you can to make him jelous and I bet he wil come around well that is what im doing anyways , but im still here sad and upset and waiting for him to come around but all I can say is dont worry and live life and try not to waste time I mean your 14 and so am I so lets just live life and at least try and forget about these confusing guys.

it depends on how you told him! if your friend told him then one day you should just og up and ask him trust me I know how you feel but thats what I did and I found out exactly what he felt because he was put on the spot. I think you are an openminded person and he is just about everything to you so just go up and tell him :-)

Alriighty Unlike Thesse People I GET WHAT YOU MEAN , If When You First Met He Tried To Talk To You And Stuff DONT CHANGE I Made That Mistake , I Changed Completley For Him And He Liked The Old Me Better , After About Nine Months I Couldn’t Take , I Mean I Still Liked Him I Just Was Done Spending My Life Accodring To Him When He Didn’t Even Notice So Today I Was MySelf , I Went To A Basebaall Game With Two Friends And He Was There But I Didn’t Really Care , I Was Withh Other Guys And He Noticed & I Was Being MySelf Around Them And He Started Talking To Me Agaain(: Yeaah Sorry I Just Told You That , But Dont Give Up&YourNOT too Young Ohhk . Just Honestly LET IT HAPPEN ITS SELF , He Will Find His Way I’m Pretty Sure