Why does sex hurt her so much?

My Girlfreind and I have dating for over a year now, and we have been attempting sex for a bout a month or two. It only lasts about 4 minutes because right when I stick it inside of her, she is in soo much pain that she cant take it. I am not tremendously big at all, only 5 inches or so, and when I’ve fingered her in the past, it seemed like she’d be able to handle it because I was in so deep. She tries to deal with it, but Its just not healthy, and its impossible to keep going at it if shes not happy and crying. I need some help, please! This is another one of the big problems in our relationship, and I know we are really ready for sex, so dont tell me we arn’t. We are both adults. (ALSO, this is not a lubrication problem, I know that for a fact.)

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Answer #1

I can see where you two are going, but I also think the Doctor thing is a must if it is really THAT painful. It can hurt at times, but thats when you cool it down, if it’s really that bad…theres something wrong. But if you maybe mesage her or like they said “add” foreplay, it might help.

Answer #2

nicely put- maybe you’re not warming her up enough and doing what MANY men do and just rush into it. warm it up first. they call it foreplay for a reason- because you do it BEFORE you shove it in there.

Answer #3

this is the same problem i had with my gf…you just have to do it keep inching it in…it will get better trust me. you just have to break the hymen its gunna hurt her like hell but theres nothing really eles you can do but not have sex.

Answer #4

She should check with a doctor and this might indicate that there is an emotional problem as well. Talking to her is very important about what she is feeling and professional help in the way of a counselor or doctor is needed. Good luck.

Answer #5

If she’s relaxed and lubricated then as said above, she needs to see her doctor for a check up.,

Answer #6

Well, we cant help you or her here. She needs to see her physician if this has been an ongoing problem!

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