Why does my man need to watch 3some porn to cum?

I’ve already gotten over the fact that he needs to watch porn to stay hard while having sex with me, but WHY is it that in order to get off he has to be watching 2 girls go down on 1 guy? He turns me over, and pushes my back to where my head (you know, where my face and eyes are) is in the ground/bed… Is it time for a 3some or what? This would probably light up his life and end mine…

Answer #1

simple answer to the last question asked…2 children, mortgage, and we own/operate a business together.

he doesn’t see anything wrong with it so there is no way he will go to counseling, and I am 22 and have a 2 year old and a 5 month old so my body IS bouncing back, but doesn’t look anything like what a 22 year old’s body normally would. I was 18 when we met…cute and tight… I think I changed too much for him. or maybe “normal” women just aren’t enough for him anymore…is that what you are saying?

Answer #2

no don’t do a 3some you just need to get some new trick go to a pole dancing class make your own flim and let him watch that instead of watching other girls. that is if your comformatable with it.

Answer #3

He’s a porn addict. There’s no other explanation, having been there and done that. Especially if you’ve been watching it since you were young, ponr impairs a man or woman’s ability to perform sexually, as they require specific kinds of visual and mental stimulation in order to find sufficient pleasure, and the longer they do it, the more and more unusual they need in order to find the same state of pleasure. Porn is one of the worst drugs out there, not just for moral reasons, but for the effects it has on people, as well.

He needs to stop looking at the porn, needs professional counseling, and needs to learn to get off naturally. If you ever expect to marry him, this problem needs to be dealt with NOW, or it WILL ruin the marriage like so many others. If you don’t expect to marry him…why are you even in this kind of relationship, then?

Answer #4

watching porn, whether 3sm or group, while having sex is not a wrong thing, if both partners enjoy it and perform better. If you feel its going to end your life , talk to him , discuss with him about it, suggest or do something more sensual acts, which can keep him hard without a porn movie. all the best.

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