Why does my husband get mad at me for looking at his phone???

sadly I have learned in my past when a guy gets mad for you looking at his phone it may be because he is hiding something. don’t freak out just yet tho. it may be something else

He thinks you don’t trust him, or he wants his privacy, most likely. The less likely, less preferable possibility is that he’s cheating on you and doesn’t want you to know. Other than that, talking to other girls doesn’t really mean anything. A person can be friends with people of the opposite gender. Don’t get suspicious yet.

sounds like he gets upset because you don’t trust him, and honey if he wants to cheat he can call anyone he wants and delete the call when he is done. YOU need to learn to trust and if something tells you different or has told you different then maybe you both should have not gotten married, You will never be happy with out trust

He could be, or he could be upset because he feels you don’t trust him. (You have a good reason not to). Just talk to him.

Thanks yall this is all very helpful. but check this out. He has recently put a lock code on his phone that way I can’t look at it. Yesterday I seen what it was and figured I would just take a look. I seen that he has been talking to this girl for the past few days. They weren’t talking about anything bad. but if they were just friends why would he hide talking to her. Saturday night we kinda got into this fight and his started texting someone I asked him who he was texting and he told me that it was his phone not mine and that I need to stop asking who he is texting. Then he told me it was is aunt. But last night I see that it was really another girl that he was texting. So why would he lie about talking to her?

I forgot to add if they were just friends at the end of that

If I caught my girlfriend going through my phone, expecting to find soemthing, I’d say the relationship was doomed

I say if hes doing it cause he thinks you dont trust him then dont you think that would make you not trust him even more makes no sence to me looking at a phone has nothin to do with trust I let my boyfriend look at my phone idc cause I have nothin to hide but he has a lock on him phone too I wish I could figure it out its drivin me insaine cause if there is a lock there is somthin to hide