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Why does my girlfriend masturbate and climax before we have sex?

She will go into the bedroom and not allow me to enter until I am called which has taken anywhere from 40 minutes to well over an hour. But while she is in our bed she will read a few sex stories and use her vibrator the whole time until she has her climax. And then she likes to smoke her cigarette and then im allowed to come in and we’ll have sex. Which by that time I’m soo worked up I don’t take long to finish.

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Answer #1

Now that… that’s a new one. I don’t think I’ve ever heard that one before.

Two theories –

  1. She’s fed up with never getting her O during intercourse and has established a ritual to ensure that she’s always satisfied.

  2. She has a bit of a sadism fetish and enjoys tormenting you with the image of her pleasuring herself though you are unable to act on your desire until she says so. In that respect, it wouldn’t be any more unusual than an S&M situation where the man is tied up/handcuffed and mercilessly teased, though it IS the first time I’ve heard of it taking place in separate rooms.

I’m leaning towards the second theory, personally. She enjoys the control, and she enjoys getting you worked up. It obviously working, too, judging by your last sentence.

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