Why does my girlfriend enjoy making me jealous?

Hi, my girlfriend likes making me jealous. She talks about different guys a lot, even her ex-boyfriends and people she used to like. It’s getting really annoying, because sometimes she acts as if she still likes them, to see what I would say. I am getting to the point where I now want to now make her jealous.I never used to get jealous before, but I guess the longer we’ve been together the more I started to care for her, so I started reacting to her childish jealous games now. It’s like she wants to get me upset, and ten minutes later she comes back to me saying she was only joking.I’m almost starting to believe some of the “jokes” that she says about boys she used to like, because she still chats to them. What should I do. I know she loves me..and I love her too

Answer #1

I used to act like that with my boyfriend…and tbh, he dumped me “/ but I realised what I had done, and now we’re happily back together :) so say somethin that wud make her think it’s getting to the point of splitting you two up, and it should put her back in line xx

Answer #2

I am in the same boat as you.. I oso have the same problem.. my girlfriend making me explode soon…

Answer #3

Same problem here , it suck it just makes me feel bad and I cant stand it. Her exs name is charly and she mentions it , I think they still talk , this makes me uncomfortable. I cant sleep thinking she may still like him and that she may be using me , I don’t know what to do I’ve checked a lot of pages and this one is just like my problem , I love her and she loves me. I cooldn stand if we break up… help

Answer #4

Looks like were all in the same boat to be honest. Im going through the same thing with my partner, She doesnt make me jelous in person, its over a social site/msn. She knows how I get jealous and I’ve told her, and she tells me to get over it, shes been in 2 really bad relationships before, and was abused as a child. And only recently I told her abotu my past and with this boy who made me feel like complete shit that I made a physical change about my self. and she always says how self centered and hwo full of himself he is. Thing is…She knows how much I dislike him, Then very recently she told me how much hes changed and doesnt dress like a tramp no more (looking through pics of him on a social site) And how much better looking he is, I told her that I didnt need to here that and she could of kept it to herself, Which immediatley ending up her getting into defence mode telling me to act my age (im 18) and that I should get over it and that im allowed too comment girls photos aswell (this is what she said before I had some semi nude models on my iPod, and she explained it made her feel uncomfortable and not good enough). Its not that fact it was a photo comment, because any other boy I would be perfectly comfortable with it) its the fact it was this one certain boy who made me depressed for a full 2 years. Commented his photo saying, “your nice, gonnna have to rob your hat tbh”. which made me feel physically sick and upset. And I know she done it on purpose cus shes been through bad relationships shes really hardheaded but I know 100% she would get really angry and uspet if I done it, but im worried that if I try and get reevenge further down the line, ill wreck the relationship, And shes the only thing that I have. Please help me :(.

Answer #5

tell her you don’t like it and it’s getting to the point that you are almost starting to believe it mybe that will stop her. She does that to make her feel that you truly love her some girls like to do that.GOOD luck

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