Why does my brain keep telling me this!

Okay, id say every onces or twice and month, my brain says to me, if you love him than go get him; why dus it keep telling me this??:@ I’ve tried to get him and it hasnt worked so why does it keep repeating itself and its not constantley its every1 once or twice a month ;l

Answer #1

infact ill just post somthing here - Me and him I’ve liked him years, he knows I have, hes told me to wait till im 16 - because of the age gap.. we had a split moment of kissing new years. and I came back for more and ended up giving him head I jumped on him he told me nothing mores gonna happen.. he lets me hang out at his work if it just me on my own if I turn up with his neice hes like no go away. its for people who are into the hobbie.. he let me sit on the floor.. when no1 allowed to sit around doing nothing your either painting ot playing a bord game and he let me sit down.. Ermm. we talk on MSN but its always me starting the Convos. . I told him about sum guy likeing me he said.. to just get with them.. because they love me’ LOL! ermm. I go to him im gona miss you when you go away and he goes who wouldnt… < trying to get me jealous obvs Err .. He always looking at me when no1 looking.. he said one that it just be sex.. but before that a few months back he sed he MIGHT Make me his girlfriend and a year gao he sed he’ll date me when im 16! I duno wot else to put there loads of just I can write oh ill just add dis. I used to think he was just afraid to date me because of the age gap and that I was mates with his hole family. but I duno anymore because of wot we did

Answer #2

hm… I see… one more, how old is he? and you are 15, right?

Well, its hard to say. It sounds to me that he is at least respectful of your young age and he knows where to draw the line… although, I do not think you should have gave him head =/

The niece thing makes me believe he is a bit unwanting for his family to know, which is reasonable considering that you know his family and your age…

I am not sure what to think of the “who wouldn’t” and “get with him” (referring to the guy who you said liked you) … sounds like he might be morally debating the relationship because of your age.

“he said one that it just be sex” .. he told you that it would only be for sex? if he did, you are better off without him… you are lucky that he told you to wait. If anyone is just willing to sleep with someone for the hell of it, they are not worth your time. You need to find someone that can truly accept and return your love, without caring about whether you are willing to put out.

I don’t know what to say.. his actions are a bit contradictory. In the end.. its your judgment and your life… some mistakes, like your first time, can not be fixed so easily… so think wisely.

Answer #3

Well, share some details about your relationship with him… are you close, distant? does he know you like him or not? does he flirt with other women? etc etc.. details will help us help you.

Answer #4

u love him more than he love you sweet. I feel that you need 2 let him go cause he’s know good yea da feel that you have 4 him dats in your brain is not going 2 go any where if you dont let him go hes useing you in alll kind of ways you said”he lets me hang out at his work if it just me on my own if I turn up with his neice hes like no go away.” so why would he change if someone else come around if he care and want 2 be with u.

Answer #5

Do you have another account by the name “katie ere”? This whole situation sounds VERY familiar!

Him coming to mind every once-twice a month is hardly enough to get all crazy about. Whenever thoughts of him come to mind, just replace him with something else. And by staying clear of him, and having no contact will make it easier to get over him.

Answer #6

Have a look at my other Questions. There Abit about him on dere :)..

Answer #7

It’s Proper annoyeing tho. makes me mad, because I’ve tried Everything!

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