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Why does my boyfriend make me soo nervous HELP?!?!?

Okay, well I’ve been dating an amazing guy for three months. He’s really sweet and I like him quite a lot…but I have a few problems. He’s a little older than me but not much. And he’s really really really sexual. I’m not really complaining..it just makes me nervous…like when we’re sitting in school at lunch in front of everyone he puts my hand on his lap between his legs..and expects me to do things..but I’m not sure what to do..because I’ll probably mess up and look retarded. Plus, he kisses me all the time..and he’s the first person I’ve ever kissed…I think I may be doing something wrong..but maybe not? Any kissing tips?? Also when I’m with him..I STIIILLL get really nervous and can hardly talk and ughh..it’s really bad..he thinks it’s cute..but I dunno.. What stuff can I do with him..like he rubs my leg and lays my head on his shoulder and all of those kinds of things…I need relationship tips NOOOW.. ^_^ thank youu. x

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Answer #1

omg your boyfriend is so sweet from how hes described your probablly nervous around him cause you like him a lot and he likes you here are some kissing tips Look at their lips. Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person’s lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don’t have to be really obvious about it. Many people will take the hint, especially if they’ve read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a person wants to kiss or be kissed. Approach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. guys find it cute when a girl is shy or nervos around them but all you have to do is relax and with your hand on his lap thing just lightly stroke his thighs

Answer #2

hey! I know exactly what its like I have the same problems.. I get really shy and nervous when im around my boyfriend, he also thinks is cute but it bugs the shit out of me.. were on 5 months todayy and yeah anyway I say just go with the flow.. dot think about it so much everyone has there techniques

Answer #3

Thank you thank you thank you ~~! [:

Answer #4

why did u delete the answers to this question? wouldve been nice to get some insight since my problem is similar

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