Why does my boyfriend feel this way?

Ok so me and my boyfriend were talking last night, something came up and he told me that he still loves me just not as much as he used to. I was so hurt by that because I felt like he doesn’t care about me anymore but I love him so much and I don’t want to lose him. He used to say how much I meant to him all the time but he doesn’t anymore. Any ideas on how I can change that and why did he even tell me that he didn’t love me as much as he used to? Please help I can’t stop crying, I feel like I’m losing him:(

Become an Expert →

Answer #1

Ouch that hurts. Well, now that he’s let the cat out of the bag and it’s time for both of you to face the music. You’ve got to respect him for being honest, it musn’t have been easy to tell you his feelings. The thing is, if that is how he feels then you can’t do much to change it. Remember that he DOES care for you and very much so, that is why he is trying to be honest with you. He might just be going through a phase where he needs space to think and understand his feelings better. Latching on to him, being heavy, crying and begging him to stick around are only going to push him away. Be honest with him, tell him how much it hurt and that you love him too much to only be half loved back. Ask him to think about how he feels and why. Otherwise, try to lighten things up by getting out and doing fun stuff together. Give him time to think about what he wants and ask him to talk about it in a few days.

More Like This

Does he feel the same way? - 1 Answers
Me and my boyfriend spend time alot while we are at school. He walk me to every class and we flirt alot. I just dont think th...
dump my boyfriend in a way that wont hurt him? - 2 Answers
how do I dump my boyfriend in a way that wont hurt him?
How should I feel about my boyfriend having a baby on the way? - 4 Answers
Um im 15 and my boyfriends 16, he has a baby on the way how should I feel?
Why do I feel this way about my boyfriend? - 2 Answers
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and I really liked him but now its starting to fade... I think he lik...
I want to be with my ex boyfriend but he doesn't feel the same way - 3 Answers
I met this guy in January and we were friends for about six months we ended up dated and everything was going great. we had o...
How can I get my boyfriend to stop hurting my feelings? - 2 Answers
How can I get my boyfriend to start acting how he used to and stop hurting my feelings..
What different ways are there to cuddle with your boyfriend? - 1 Answers
like when were laying down, or just wherever we are, what different ways can we cuddle together?
why do I feel diz way? - 1 Answers
I been feeling 2 throw up lately and everytime I eat a lil bit or a lot I feel 2 throw up and I get a headache... and when I...
Why do I feel this way??? - 1 Answers
Ok so I've been dating my boyfriend 4 about a month, but I still really like my ex and my ex says that he still loves me. Whe...
How to ask my boyfriend to Sadies in a cute way? - 1 Answers
I need to ask my boyfriend to sadies in a very cute way and all the ideas that I've gotten are not cutting it. I need somethi...

Why does my boyfriend feel this way?

Love & Relationships

Best 150+ Heart touching love...

Get Over a Breakup

Psychic Source

BestInfoHub

Victoria Milan