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Why does it hurt her?

When me and my girlfriend have sex, when I first stick it in she’s tense and it hurts her but as we go it stops hurting her and we’re fine. What do you think that is? Could you please help us with this? Thank you

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Answer #1

She too tensed up when you first start. You might want to try differnt types of foreplay to help her start to relax befor you actually start having sex. It gives her mind and muscles in her body a chance to relax. Also make sure she’s good and wet before hand. It may become easier as you go on because she relaxes and she’s wetter. Figure out what she like and what turns her on and you’ll be good to go.

Answer #2

Well she’s tense so she’s tightening up her body, so when you go in her, it’s gonna hurt her. It could also be that she’s not wet enough, and once you’re having sex she starts getting more wet and she starts to enjoy it.

Answer #3

If she doesn’t relax it might hurt her but once she is comfortable the pain goes away tell her to relax and not get so tense.

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