Why does he always get mad at me for little things?

Im a guy who recently went through a breakup with a friend and we are still pretty close but I find sometimes she is similar to your problems. I found that in the relationship I had to do a lot of things, like make the plans for the date… etc, and sometimes I just wanted her to participate more. Occasionally I would ask “whats the matter” or something and think she was lying when “nothing” was the awnser, so I felt like something was wrong on my part and she wouldent talk about it, so yea maybe you just gotta have an uninterrupted conversation with him and speak your mind, let it all go.

He prob stills cares for you, at least you know he wonders if your ok, which is a good sign, but he may be overreacting just a tad bit. Your right about one thing, guys always want girls to come to them, because guys are the dominant ones. Its time that you show him, that you aren’t always gonna chase after him because he’s mad. If he is your friend, he will relize he is doing something wrong, and try to change it. If he don’t, well, he’s a jerk like a lot of other guys. (no offense :]) Hopefully this helps.

• Advice girl. :]

don’t worry yourself ova someone who dats not appreciate u.

I’ve been in relationships that are similar, the bottom line is that that’s his way of controlling you. Its so subtle its hard to see it, but when he demands you tell him whats wrong and you don’t, then to control you or make you feel like you “should have listened” he punishes you. He’s playing games with you. And the purpose of the whole game is to keep you guessing and trying to keep him happy because that puts him in control. He calls the shots, he says what ok and not okay. Guys who are really good guys do this too… its a way of feeling in control when your afraid, it doesn’t mean hes a bad guy, it just means that hes got behavioral issues like we all do, only these behavioral issues can be damaging to you. Which is why you can’t play his game and figure out what he wants, because he doesn’t know, all he wants is to be in control which isn’t fair to you, so you need to decide what you want regardless of what he’s doing and stick to it. For your sake. because guys like this don’t change… and no matter how much you change, if its his problem and he won’t change it, it will never get better. Good luck!