Why does he act like this???

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 6 months. we are in love, and 14. yeah yeah yeah were young, but who cares we don’t:) anyways, we have done everything but se* and he understands that I am not ready and he is not pressuring me at all. the other night I brought up the topic that we dont spend enough time together anymore and when I ask him to hangout he says hes busy. with soccer, friends, and family vacations. okay, if you really wanted to be with me, then make time for me! he says I make to big of a deal of things and that one thing goes wrong and the world ends. okay yes, I do make a big deal about things, but I care. when he doesnt like something I do, he tells me, but im not aloud to tell him??? It really starting to make me mad how I have to try to be happy. I jsut dont get it. hes beeen acting all weird and being kind of distant. hes done this before when we dont hangout for awhile…I jsut dont know what to do…do I ignore it? go along with it? treat him the way hes treating me? pleasee help meee! asap. thanks guys.

Answer #1

well hun yes your young and so is he hes just a boy anddd hes human every needs there space. you should talk to him about it let him noe how you feel im 14 also so trust me I noee what its like and you guys have been together a long time maybe you guys are growing apart that happens its normal

Answer #2

But if I talk to him about it its like im flipping out again!! im jsut so confused. but thank you for your help!

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