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Why does everyone hate me?

I try to be nice to everyone and keep my thought to myself, but no matter how hard I try I feel like everyone hates me and doesnt want me around. In school I am completely ignored by everyone. To the point where people walk into me. My friends think its the funniest thing ever. When I’m with my friends I feel like they dont want me around, and they have they’re own conversations with their back to me. So today my mom made me walk home because she didnt want to have to waste time on her lunch break to get me and my sister at different times, then after walking three miles in 80 degree weather I come home and find out she not only deleted me as a friend on a social site but also blocked me as well. I honestly dont even know what to do anymore. I pretty much hate my life and my mom gets p!ssed when I say that because I have a great life and nothing wrong with it except for the fact I just feel so alone all the time and that no one likes me. What should I do to not feel like im hated by everyone?

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Answer #1

you might think everyone hate you. but you need to more social or be more outgoing. I sorta felt like this before it was just cause I wasn’t very social. but now I make a fool outside just to get a laugh off :D. you need to stop worrying about what other think of you and just be yourself and peoples will want to be your friends for who you are :)

alway remember

“ turn that frown upside down” ( oop wrong one :O)

“ Speak on how you feel” ( that right :D)

Answer #2

Believe it or not I have the exact same problem you just descrbed me but all I do is just remain silent people are gonna ignore you that’s just life but I’ve been dealing with it for a long time I’ve found out that just not taking helps me and tryng to find people at different schools also seems to help but moving school is gonna help me so maybe if you speak your mind and just try not to care what people think telle if it gets any better

Answer #3

I’m sorry you feel that way. You’ve got friends. So not everyone can hate you. I get that it is hard to believe. I wish I had an answer to your question. But the thing is, no one on this earth is hated by everyone. Prisoners who’ve killed and raped get letters from people. You cant be all that bad. You know, when you think people are ignoring you, you tend not to start conversations. Leading to people ignoring you. And as for your friends not wanting you around, why would they be your friends? People arent friends with others for no good reason. Believe me, if they didnt want you around, they wouldnt be around. I know it is hard. You just have to start believing that you are likable. Because until you believe it, no one else can. Can you talk to your school counselor?

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