Why do pple do this?

I am just wondering why guys want to look at dirty stuff instead of who they are with? Does this mean they are unhappy with their girlfriends body? Are they just sick in the head? I want opinions from guys too. If it is because them being unhappy with her …she can’t change what she looks like…:(

Answer #1

I’ve already answered it but I asked my boyfriend the other day and he said that sometimes the urge just occurs

Answer #2

tooconfusedbyu …the comment about men not liking skinny women…are you saying that the pornstars are skinny women?

Answer #3

the urge to look at someone besides the one you are with? I still don’t understand. For me I only want to be with one person so I don’t see how looking and thinking about others is right…thats me tho :) thanks for the answers tho hope you guys keep commenting on the subject.

Answer #4

I don’t know but I would say if your really really in love with someone then why would you want to watch porn when you can have the real thing with your partner???

Answer #5

I dont think theres anything wrong with it at all. People just like a bit of spice now and again. dosent mean they dont love you or dislike your body

Answer #6

It’s like asking why do people fantasize… there’s nothing wrong with it, it’s hardly sick. It doesnt even mean you want to be with the people in the movies or you’d want to do everything they do. It’s harmless fantasy…

Answer #7

Why do girls insist upon buying a plethora of shoes? I think girls are sick in the head because they need so many shoes.

That’s what you sound like. While I’ve never been a big fan of any type of porn I will stickup for my fellow-man and say, about 90% of all men will watch porn, not because their lovers are hideous, not because they are sick in the head, but because they like to see their fantasy’s. I bet every guy you know watches porn, gay, straight, transsexual… Really doesn’t matter, at some point we have all watched porn in our lives, the sick ones are the ones that sit in a room for 6 hours a day and watch it.

There is a lot of women whom like porn as well, are they sick too?

Answer #8

“I don’t know but I would say if your really really in love with someone then why would you want to watch porn when you can have the real thing with your partner???”

I’m a female, me and my fiance both watch porn, sometimes alone, sometimes together. Watching pornography has NOTHING to do with your relationship. It’s nothing more than a stimulant. When you masterbate sometimes it’s just more fun to look at something that arouses you. I look at porn all the time.

Also, a lot of couple’s enjoy porn together. Me and my fiance have quite a porn collection. We watch it while were having sex and it’s fun.

Answer #9

Loosen up. Most guys love to watch it…but would rather die than to be with someone like that. it’s all about sexual openness. America is based on the prudes. Who cares. If he didn’t like the way you looked he wouldn’t be with you. Most of the men I know do NOT like skinny women. They like them with some junk! Ask to watch with them. you might be surprised! Not at the liking of porn…but the things that porn will make him want to do to you! Enjoy!! Be glad he is getting experience through porn and ot a porn star!

Answer #10

its not that they don’t like our bodies (girls) but I think its bascially what akumo said… my boyfriend is nearly always watching porn and im just like wtf? I don’t see why they do, its like why are they watching random girls/guys do stuff or w/e and the thing they dont understand is that it can actually seriously upset their girlfriend’s, boyfriend’s and its not fair on them… well I just kinda feel- I dunno?!?! because hes like watching it for hours so im just like wtf is going through his head..

Answer #11

There is nothing wrong with looking at pornography and it does NOT mean that you are no happy with the person you are with. a lot of women look at porn also, myself included. Me and my fiance both look at porn, sometimes alone and sometimes together. It’s a great way to spice up your love life.

Honestly I think that people who don’t like pornography are just insecure about themselves.

Answer #12

sweetie1995 I agree with u (:

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