Why do people think that when you're young you can't be in love?

I’m replying to a comment I read on an advice column that stated, “Your just a child, love doesn’t exist yet for you”

I don’t believe in that statement what so ever. I truly feel like the BEST time to fall in love is when you’re a teen. It’s so pure, and full of youth, and so special. I got together with a boy when I was 13, we stayed together, and some issues inevitably broke us a part. Now I’m 16 and I’m once again back into the arms of my first love because it’s true love.

Other stupid teens who think they’re in love when they have only been going out for 8 days make every other kind of “teen love” look bad. What are your thoughts?

Answer #1

Love exists at anytime and place. I am 15. I have fallen in love. Once. I am a little rebelliant to it now. Because it did not turn out well. Although I believe. Our parent’s always teach us as kids to believe in the easter bunny. Santa clause. Tooth fairy. And yet always forget to teach us to believe in love. Love has no boundaries. It does not sit in a corner until a certain age and then jump out at you. It just happends. You can’t stop it. Nor ignore it. It’s love. And it is great (: Parents are over pre-tective. They will always want to sheild there children from whatever might take them away from them. (the child away from parents) They feel as if the boy may take place of the parents. Which in fact does happen. This is a topic I feel much strongly about. I used to not believe after my love left me. But then I realized, That you can always find love again. It doesn’t stop at any point in time. Just as life doesn’t stop for anyone or anything. I feel those 2 things clash together pretty well. Love it available to any age (: anygay. That was quite long. But yeah That is how I feel. And also I know I will love again. I am talking to a boy right now. And maybe some things are sparking (: well yep. ttyl!!!

Answer #2

Well, I’m 13 and I defiantly think love exists, no matter how old! I mean age doesn’t really matter! I liked people when I was 4 so it proves something! plus there is this guy I really like and he likes me back and kisses me and stuff. Your sooo right, age does not matter at ALL! and your boyfriend is really into you I bet if you met him when you were 13 too. :)

Answer #3

I don’t believe that at all. I’m 14 and I’ve been wit my boyfriend for the past 15 months, and I am in love with him. Its usaully older people out of their teens who say we can’t, but how would they really know how we feel, just because they didn’t get the chance to experience love while they were younger doesn’t mean it doesn’t exsist and isn’t impossible to find. I hate when people say we can’t be in love.

Answer #4

I totally agree

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