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Why do my parents bug me and ask me all kinds of stuff???
My parents are so controlling and ask about everything in my life. It feels like nothing is just mine and I have no control over anything. And also when something goes wrong its always my fault. When my brother didn’t pick me up when he was suppose to, all I heared was that it was all my fault and I don’t know why. What can I do to get some say in my life? Its mine and I want it to actually be mine. I know I’m only 14 and my parents still have a lot of control over me but still. I’m always what they want me to be, and I can not ever act like myself with them. I still may be young, but I am a human being with my own life.
Well they do love you a lot and they are expecting you to be responsible.I would say to them that they should give you some space… in a nice way.
Good luck xoxoxoxxo Niqa
yeah I know what you meen my parents always ask me about everything that happend to me that day…everything.
I just tell them what they want to hear. next time they bug you explain that you need your space.
you see now thats it, right there!!1
exactly what you just typed is what you need to say to them…
head up, back straight, deep breaths in and out and you go tell them you want to have more freedom in your life
if it fails the 1st time ask again, and again… the key here is to talk to them, but dont annoy them asking then over and over the same day… be strategic and plan your assaults precisely…
listen to me I sound like a 62yo general
Its one of two things.
They are possibly just really interested in your life and what is going on with you. If you are shutting them out it could hurt them. I know its so hard during the teenage years to forge your own way and be independent but its hard for your parents too. They are so used to being responsible for you and its their job to make sure you grow into a decent human being. They are also used to being the center of your world. And its really hard when that focus shifts. You might want to cut them a little slack.
On the other hand, they could be being over protective to keep you from getting into trouble. It almost never works that way but its a possibility.
Either way, just try and relax. You only have 4 years left. You will make it.
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